YRN Playlist


  2. Wande Coal & DJ Tunez – ISKABA
  3. YCEE JUICE (ft. Maleek Berry)
  4. Seyi Shay – Yolo Yolo (Prod. DJ Coublon)



  1. Banky W – Heaven (Susu’s song)
  2. Travis Greene – You Waited (Official Music Video)
  3. Ed Sheeran – Bibia Be Ye Ye [Official Audio]





I said No.

No means No!



I remember the first day we met,

there was just something off about you

I told my boyfriend Patrick about it but he didn’t fret

You and your instincts, he said

How could he, you were his bestfriend

Patrick really wanted Vincent and i to get along

he had this thing in his head that our relationship wouldn’t work out as well if his babe and

his bestfriend weren’t cool

If only he knew his “friend” Vincent had no sense of right and wrong

We could see eye to eye at some point

Then i started trying to change my mind about him

But deep down i knew it wouldn’t be prolonged

I just didn’t know i’d end up being this distraught

I started talking to you three months ago

I decided to actually get to know you

You turned out great

and we had fun on our trio dates

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Dear Mr. X

I feel lost in your love. I don’t know if this is a good thing. I picture your smile, I constantly play your words in my head. Your words find a way to my heart but stick to the gates because doubt locked the doors. I want to believe you. A part of me does but my heart is too wounded to not let my brain think and you know how smart the brain gets.

You say you care. You say you miss me. You say you love me. Do you? Do the same words come out when you look at her. Does she melt your heart the way you do mine? Does she make your insides jump the way you make mine? Will it make a difference how you felt about her if she were here everyday like me.

I’m scared of so many things and losing you is at the top of the list. We’ve had the best moments and I am scared of the worst. The thought of you happy with someone else is painful. Like why can’t life just give you someone and let them come with a guarantee.

“Here is the eternal agreement that Mr X is yours forever. Nobody can take him away from you not even if they tried”


Hello! I get to do whatever I want on Wednesdays and here’s what I did……

1 – Are you named after anyone?

  • Yep. My paternal grandma.

2 – When was the last time you cried?

  • A few days ago. Emotional moment

3 – Do you have kids?

  • Nope.

4 – If you were another person, would you be a friend of yourself?

  • Yes!

5 – Do you use sarcasm a lot?

  • I like to think that I don’t.

6 – What’s the first thing you notice about people?

  • Their eyes. The eyes can tell a lot

7 – What is your eye color?

  • Black

8 – Scary movie or happy endings?

  • Happy endings if I have to pick between these two but honestly real endings.

9 – Favorite smells?

  • Vanilla and Sweat Pea

10 – What’s the furthest you’ve ever been from home?

  • College. Bitter-sweet memories

11 – Do you have any special talents?

  • I sing in the shower and to my closest friends.

12 – Where were you born?

  • Nigeria. Port Harcourt to be precise.

13 – What are your hobbies?

  • I love writing, playing sudoku or word search games and watching cartoons

14 – Do you have any pets?

  • Nope but I’d love one

15 – Do you have any siblings?

  • Yup. Love them too much.

16 – How tall are you?

  • About 5′ 3″

17 – How many countries have you visited?

  • Hmmmm…… 2

18 – What was your favorite/worst subject in High School?

  • Fav: Math.
  • Worst: Chemistry… yuck!

19 – What Sports do you play/Have you played?

  • I used to run track a while back

20 – How would you describe your fashion sense?

  • Simple


Stay Happy ♥♥

Is Bae really Bae?

There’s been this trend of lying boyfriends/girlfriends and side pieces lately and it is actually becoming sickening. Relationships these days always seem to have a “scum” story involved at the end and I’m honestly sick and tired of hearing stories of heart broken girls and guys.

YES! Some people are actually just helpless liars but I’ll leave some tips I think might help to curb this epidemic.


Take your time

There’s really no rush in this dating or courting life. No need to take things too far too soon. Both parties need to take their time and get to know each other. Some of us want bae to be bae 5 minutes after we meet. NO! It’s not just about the name. Time reveals a lot more than we think.


Be Friends

As much there are other things bringing both of you together, try to build friendship. Get to know this person on other levels. Talk about other things apart from how awesome both of you are together because that’s never going to come off as horrible even if it is. So try to relate on other levels. This could help you check what bae is doing with their time apart from loving you.


Be Watchful

I did not say snoop around o. I said be watchful. NO! they’re not the same thing. Take it easy. Stop assuming things before they are even said or done. How does your bae answer phone calls? How do they relate with others? How comfortable are they around you? When you guys are out check those eyes. Are they wandering in fear? Don’t be the crazy person please. Notice their actions. Words always sound good.


It’s about time we started knowing what and who we were to our supposed “significant other”. It’s great when we’re on the same page but it gets sour after a while if one person realizes they’ve been fooled the whole time.

I want to hear your stories and experiences with “undercover bae” so please share.





YRN Playlist

I always get excited when I hear Music!

Such Beauty….

I know it’s Monday so why am I being jumpy?

Well….. It’s Media Monday on YRN!!!

Your Regular Nigerian is going to be sharing some of her favourite playlists and more every Monday.


  1. Ouma Ft. Jable – Hunt Me Down (Prod. Yung Willis)
  2. Nana Fofie – Mashup 2.0
  3. Nana Fofie – Mad Over You Mashup
  4. Jon Bellion – One More Time
  5. Jon Bellion – Maybe IDK
  6. Jon Bellion – Dead Man Walking


  1. Elle Varner – Not Tonight (Audio)
  2. James Arthur – Can I Be Him
  3. James Arthur – Safe Inside
  4. Mali Music – Heavy Love




These were my fav for last week. I’d love to listen to the songs that keep you going too. SHARE!



New Rules!!!

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It’s been a while guys. I know. I’ve missed you too.

So I decided to let you guys in on what the new rules are for the blog. (drumroll please….)

I’ll be posting everyday of the week from Monday to Saturday. I’ll let you rest on Sundays. I plan on having themed days so feel free to let me know what you’d like to see. First post will be Next Week Monday.

I’m so excited to share more with you guys.

Stay Happy ♥♥